Sunday May 31, 2009
Surprises loose their meaning IF you break the ‘news’ or hinted before the actual event.
Check the meaning out (from Oxford dictionary) ;
Surprise : Mild astonishment caused by something unexpected
Get the point? – Unexpected
Just as if suddenly I ‘announce’ that I am getting married, than it will be a surprise. Btw, I am not OK.
To illustrate my point, refer 2 stories below
#1 : True story which involves M=me ;
K : Guess what? I got you a surprise! *looks excited*
M : Huh? Err, then it is not a surprise anymore?!
K : *pauses* Hmm…true also… *sounds disappointed*
M : Let me guess….X? Y? Z?
K : Not expensive but it is something that can satisfy your crave. Then I shall not reveal what is that until you see it.
*the entire conversation turned into me guessing what the ‘surprise’ was, which in the end I guessed correctly – RIBENA!*
#2 : Made up story (F=Female, M=Male) ;
M : Guess what? I have a surprise for you! *looks excited*
F : Huh? Err, then it is not a surprise anymore?!
M : Oh…anyway,well, it’s something shiny, something that all girls would want …!
F : Hmm, *smiles* Okay, let me see, you want me to guess before you present it ..or…? Oklar, a wild guess…..Lip gloss!! ? (shiny mar)
M : Nope. *takes out something shiny from pocket, and then kneels down*
M : X,will you marry me?
F : Wow *pauses*…a ring? Totally do not expect this!….
Girls!!! Imagine such proposal, FAIL lar ok .
A surprise will be like this ;
M : X, you look very beautiful today
F : *blushes* Thanks dear.
M : Excuse me awhile would you. *Pretends to head to wash room, gets up from chair, takes out something shiny from pocket, and then kneels down*
M : X,will you marry me?
F : *pauses* [stunned]
Moral of the story : Let the surprise BE a SURPRISE! However you want it to be, romantic/funny it’s your call 
Back to the whole point of the topic today, as I have said I am NOT getting married. Instead, I presented a surprise to my dad! Today is daddy’s birthday !! Another year wiser another year nearer to retirement
*chuckles*
Due to my extremely FAR location, a celebration with him is definitely impossible. Thank God that my bro is back, so at least one of his monkeys is there to cheer him up during the ‘I-AM-OLDER’ acknowledgement session. 
I bought him something from China and I told mom – “12 am sharp” !
And so, tha-da the surprise ;
A teapot-set & a box of oolong Chinese tea , all the way from China!
Closer look!
All credits to Daniel for his kind help. A complete package from hunting to packing , till giving me a free delivery all the way from China to Ipoh.
Ei, you think easy a…You never know how much courage I have to beg him buy trust him in getting something which I have no idea how it looks like, of which at the same time I crossing my fingers that my dad will like it? Haha, joking only la..I am more than grateful already that Daniel is so gracious and kind to help me…
Well, Daniel was in China (forgot the actual location) for a job-posting and he mentioned about his discovery of nice and cheap set of teapots while hunting for souvenirs. And just out of a sudden I thought, why not I ‘tumpang’ him to help get 1 set for Dad’s coming birthday? And just so you know, my dad is a HUGE fan of chinese tea – He could actually name what this/that tea is with just one miserable sip ???!
This surprise comes with many exchange of emails (I was then in jungle.) My planning skills are indeed getting better eh?
*rolls eyes*
*pats own shoulder*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!
Wishing you many more lovely surprises from me to come !
Btw, dad likes it a lot

















































and one of her tactics was by taking the photo (of me crossing my arms indicating– Not mine!) with her K800i. Well, it did us good, I smiled eventually and she had something to do while waiting for me 
